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Do you ever hear it? That voice inside your head–yeah, the one that whispers things like, “There’s no way I could do that,” and “How can I compare with [insert any name here],” or–the worst–“I’m worthless.”

Are you listening? That whisper tries to make you believe the worst about yourself.

Apparently that whisper is heard by others, too. And not about you.

British singer, Adele, who dominated the Grammys earlier this month with an astounding six wins, spoke candidly with reporter Anderson Cooper about her stage fright. Surprise. Even someone whose last album has sold 18 million copies so far. Someone who was recognized as one of the best in the music industry believes she will disappoint her audience. She admits to pre-show panic attacks and nausea, even to the point of throwing up on occasion.

Still, she keeps doing what she does, in the way she chooses to do it. No revealing clothes, no gimmicks, no trying to look or sound like someone else. Writing songs that reflect who she is, and what she has experienced. Her hit song, “Someone Like You,” was written the day after a bitter breakup with her boyfriend. Not with an eye on a Grammy, but written for herself and from her heart–broken at the time. People really relate to that song. But in the interview, she expressed disbelief that people are making such a fuss over her. She said, “Who, little old me? I’m nobody.”

Adele doesn’t quit even though that whisper tells her she might fail. And she just won six Grammys.

Don’t listen to the whispers. Instead, tune in to God’s voice. Listen carefully. He has big plans for you (Jer. 29:11), but he will help you get there (Phil. 4:13). He calms you when you’re worried or scared (Phil. 4:7). Despite our flaws, he wants to be your friend (Gal. 4:7; Gal. 5:1, 1 Thes. 1:4). In fact, he loves you so much he gave up his life for you (John 3:16).

Despite the whispers, Adele achieved her dream of being a successful singer. Don’t let the whispers keep you from your dream. God’s voice sings a much sweeter song.

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Taming the monster in your head

the monster in your head at www.gapingvoid.comDear friend,

You have just experienced the “dark” side of me. I tend to disappear, for months or even years at a time. I beat myself into a major guilt frenzy because I think I have let you down. Sometimes it’s because I stood you up at the coffee shop . Or I ignored your email asking me for a favor. Maybe I feel like a failure with my family or at work. Whatever the reason—real or imagined—there’s a monster in my head saying I’m not good enough.

So I just disappear into a black hole, which makes me feel even more guilt, which makes me dig an even deeper hole, which makes me … well, you get the vicious cycle picture.

At times I have allowed this monster to get the best of me, and I never re-establish contact with friends because of my guilt about letting myself and everyone else down. The dead remains of warm friendships litter the countryside, and I hope a dozen or more people have long since quit wondering what they did to deserve my never, ever returning their phone calls:

Where have you been?
Are you okay?
I’m worried about you.
Did I do something to make you mad?

With each email or phone message, it becomes harder to explain my silence, and now I feel it is impossible to climb out of that deep, dark hole. It’s too hard to say, “It’s me. I’m sorry I haven’t called.” I tell myself that you wouldn’t understand, and refuse to believe that good friends would welcome me back into the friendship.

Do you feel like you have let Jesus down? Can’t seem to get control over some behavior? We all do. Arrogance, anger, abortion; drugs, deceit, doubt; gossip, greed, and gluttony—we’re all guilty of something (Romans 3:23).

If you feel like you’re not worthy of God’s friendship and love, Jesus wants to banish that monster in your head. He is waiting for you (Matt. 11:28-30). He wants to be your friend (John 15:15). Peter, one of his closest friends, let him down. Yet, Jesus forgave Peter and gave him a second chance. Jesus loves us and welcomes us back, just as we are (Luke 7:37-47).

Jesus is your best friend. He cares about you, regardless of what you have done in your life. He loves you more than you can ever imagine (John 15:13, John 3:16).

Today is the day I’m crawling out of that hole. I’m making that attempt to say I’m sorry I let you down. I’m shining the light on my dark side and banishing the “Disappearing into the Darkness” monster.

Dear Jesus,
I’m sorry.
Will you forgive me?

Yes, he does.
(1 John 1:9)

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One By One, It Will Get Done

“Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise. ” Prov. 6:6

Tessa has always been organizationally challenged. That’s a tactful way to say that her room is in a constant state of chaos. (Do I dare say she gets it from her mom?)

Periodically I send her to her room and yell, “Don’t come out until it’s clean!” Two hours later she’s out, but what does she have to show for all that time? Nothing. Still a disaster.

Tessa has been busy all that time, but she keeps getting distracted. She unearths and works on a craft project, writes a few paragraphs when she runs into her journal, dresses her American Girl doll with the outfit she finds under her bed. But her room is still not clean.

I doubt the momma ant has any problem with a kid’s messy room. Have you ever watched ants? It took just a few bites to the backs of my legs to look closely before I sit on the ground when gardening. Ant hills are remarkable. Those tiny little creatures are able to create huge colonies. And they do it by moving one grain of sand at a time.

The “ant” method worked to help Tessa clean her room. When I help her focus on one thing at a time, miraculously she is able to get the room clean. It goes like this: “Pick up all your dirty clothes. Now pick up all the books. Done? Now put all the American Girl stuff into its storage container. Done? Now put all hair bands in the drawer.” And so on. What was once an overwhelming, unachievable task is conquered by focusing on and finishing one thing at a time.

I have several projects in the works, including a book, several articles, this blog, and a “conversation starter” game/activity. Each project has value. At the heart of each one is relief for parents who feel unequipped to initiate spiritual leadership in their homes. Each gives moms the tools and confidence to saturate their children in the truth of the Bible.

Like Tessa, I’m struggling with getting any of it done. I get distracted. I flit from project to project. Do a little on this project, then a little on that project. And none of the projects are getting done.

One thing at a time. One project at a time. Like the ant, one grain of sand, then another. A page here, a sentence there. Before I know it, I’ll be done. Just like the ant.

What are you working on? Do you have a bunch of unfinished projects in the works?

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