Do you ever hear it? That voice inside your head–yeah, the one that whispers things like, “There’s no way I could do that,” and “How can I compare with [insert any name here],” or–the worst–“I’m worthless.”
Are you listening? That whisper tries to make you believe the worst about yourself.
Apparently that whisper is heard by others, too. And not about you.
British singer, Adele, who dominated the Grammys earlier this month with an astounding six wins, spoke candidly with reporter Anderson Cooper about her stage fright. Surprise. Even someone whose last album has sold 18 million copies so far. Someone who was recognized as one of the best in the music industry believes she will disappoint her audience. She admits to pre-show panic attacks and nausea, even to the point of throwing up on occasion.
Still, she keeps doing what she does, in the way she chooses to do it. No revealing clothes, no gimmicks, no trying to look or sound like someone else. Writing songs that reflect who she is, and what she has experienced. Her hit song, “Someone Like You,” was written the day after a bitter breakup with her boyfriend. Not with an eye on a Grammy, but written for herself and from her heart–broken at the time. People really relate to that song. But in the interview, she expressed disbelief that people are making such a fuss over her. She said, “Who, little old me? I’m nobody.”
Adele doesn’t quit even though that whisper tells her she might fail. And she just won six Grammys.
Don’t listen to the whispers. Instead, tune in to God’s voice. Listen carefully. He has big plans for you (Jer. 29:11), but he will help you get there (Phil. 4:13). He calms you when you’re worried or scared (Phil. 4:7). Despite our flaws, he wants to be your friend (Gal. 4:7; Gal. 5:1, 1 Thes. 1:4). In fact, he loves you so much he gave up his life for you (John 3:16).
Despite the whispers, Adele achieved her dream of being a successful singer. Don’t let the whispers keep you from your dream. God’s voice sings a much sweeter song.